We
see, read and hear so much on violence, and many a times it appears that
everything is solved through violence.
The hero beats up the villain, and some times even murders him/her and
the audience is so happy that the hero has put an end to evil.
At
home parents think that they discipline their children by using violence in
various forms, verbally, other times physically and still at times emotionally
and psychologically. They are happy because the child appears to have changed
the behaviour because of violence.
In
the school the teachers think that they can bring in class room discipline and
school discipline through violence and the class remains quite because of fear
not because of respect. Then
we see so much of violence against women in all strata to society. I come across even highly qualified women
holding executive post but a victim of violence.
Even
though it appears that violence has cleared away obstructions quickly, the impact
is great for children at home and in the class room suffers psychologically and
carry emotional wounds throughout their lives, and some times they give back
what they have received. Children abused go through a lot of psychological issues as they grow, and some times the wounds last for a life time.
Let
us put an end to all forms of violence! Do not be silent about this….
There is always a way out! And plenty of resources all around us; say no to violence and if you find in the neighbourhood report to the nearest police station, and connect with the organizations that are working against violence.
We can contact: the following for help:
Childline : 1098
which is almost all the cities a toll free number for children in distress
Women’s help
line 1091 24 hrs toll free (Hyderabad)
Women protection
cell: @ 040 -23320539
Women police
station: 040-27853508
YWCA, Sec-bad
-040-27801909
Human Rights Law
Network: 040-27661883
Bhumika helpline
for women: 1800 425 2908
Makro
foundation: 040-46004600
Valid point made indeed
ReplyDeleteV for Violated-Random Thoughts Naba
Thanks dear ...
DeleteFirst the change has to be brought inside of us then we can start campaigning around...a genuine message
ReplyDeleteVery true ! most of the time, the victims who keep quiet about the violence are the ones who get more beatings ..
DeleteAngela very relevant post.
ReplyDeleteThanks sunila .. I have been part of a pilot programme for 6 months that focussed on violence against women, and I have met so many women who suffer silently to keep the marriage going, sometimes for children, for security etc... its is very sad..
DeleteOh, that is terrible.. How can they believe violence and physical abuse can solve anything. Very relevant post- unfortunately. Great write up!
ReplyDeleteIts such a common sight in certain homes and in some schools eliz...really unfortunate, especially for children it impacts them so much...
DeleteAnd the kids think that when they are hit they should hit back. I try to show them otherwise...
ReplyDeleteLiz A. from Laws of Gravity
the logic here is might is right, and it continuous through out their lives... ..
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