We are all evolving persons, we
plan and set goals for our lives,
attempt many things in various aspects, sometimes we succeed, at other
times we don’t, and we keep exploring wanting to find out ways by which we can
address those issues that remain unresolved in life. So year after we make
resolutions, and in the process we become what we wanted to, because we have
made a decision in our lives.
A few years ago in a group
session, we were asked to find answers for some very important questions on
myself and my life: The purpose was to come up with a mission statement for
myself. I remember doing these exercises
with great enthusiasm and recall the answers for the following:
What do I want to Be?
What to do I want to Have?
What do I want to Do?
I identified my mission in life
is to Be the Good News and give the
Good news to those around me. The Good news was that, I believe that I am loved,
forgiven and accepted unconditionally by God; hence I decide to love, forgive
and accept every person in my life unconditionally.
Which was very difficult and
challenging, as it demanded courage from my self, to accept persons as they are
without making any corrections, to forgive them and continue to love them despite
who they were.
Once I made this decision in my
mind, over a period of time, I found gradually, everything fell in place,
making it comfortable for me to understand, love, accept and forgive those
around me, today I am happy about that decision, as it has helped me not only to
come closer to persons, but also find that every person is good, and has
something beautiful to offer to this world.
Another important aspect of my
mission statement was what I want to Have
being single, I wanted to get married, have children, and settle down,
and own a home for myself, its 11 years
now that I am married, have two children and have settled down, and even bought
a flat.
The third question was what I want to Do and I was clear that I wanted
to reach out to people, and would like to spend my time in service. So I worked
in the social sector with various issues, and found meaning in whatever
programme I took up.
Today when I look back, I have to
certain extent succeeded in getting what I want, but then that is not the end,
today I have new goals set up, and have new plans, and I continue to evolve
in understanding myself a little more, and moving on giving meaning to everything that’s
happening in my life, finding the unique purpose of my existence.
So I am asking those same
questions again, and I am sure, the answers will not be the same as it was few
years ago, and I believe that I need to redefine my mission statement to make
it more relevant to myself now.
"You are where you are today because you’ve
chosen to be there." —
Harry Browne
Be Happy !
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