Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.
Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his room mate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.
Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.
This is a beautiful story of how some people can be so encouraging despite having their own problems in life, when we share our problems, fifty percent of the problem is solved, and when we share our happiness, our happiness just get doubled, when ever you feel down or feel the lack, start counting all the things that money cannot buy and you feel a lot more richer, there is a hymn I used to sing called count your blessings - I used to feel very motivated to sing this hymn, and remember all those things which I need to be thankful for:
- The gift of life – the very breath of life, which I realized even more in the last few weeks when I had severe cold and cough.
- The gift of love and relationships – of family, friends, colleagues where I can share, be myself
- The beauty of nature – sun, moon, stars, plants, flowers
- The gift of my body – my mind that makes me think, the heart that makes feel emotions, that enables me to express myself
- The inspiring books that I read, the people who inspire me to live meaningfully
- All those special friends who motivate me and share their struggles and success
- All those victims of domestic violence who trust me and take me into confidence in sharing their problems, the list goes on….