I have chosen 26 tips for married life as my theme
for the
A-Z challenge 2016. Today’s word is Prayer
I
am delayed in posting today, due to frequent power cuts; hoping to visit all
you lovely people and waiting to read your post. Hopefully tomorrow will be
better than today J
Today’s word is
prayer for this post. This word prayer has been very important for me
in my life. As a child I was instilled in to believe in prayer; as both my mom
and dad were very prayerful and taught us to pray every day. They shared their faith stories of how they overcame
challenges in their lives in moments of doubts, failures, sickness, hardships
and even financial crisis. Raising up 9 children along with reaching out to
extended families was not easy for both my mom and dad.
I watched them
pray as a child and I learnt to prayer by imitation; so I carried this habit of
praying constantly, seeking God’s blessings in everything I did. By the time I
got married, my dad expired and my mom was left alone to handle the responsibility
of settling me down in marriage; and she did the best that she could and told
me to trust in God and accept the proposal, believing in the best.
Today I have no
regrets for the decision I made to get married to David who is equally
religious and very devoted to prayer, fasting and making sacrifices. Being the
eldest child with a responsibility of taking care of his family; when his
father left them, never to come back, he had to work hard to take up whatever
work that came in depriving himself of education in order to keep his family
together. In this process he found refuge in holding on to his faith that he
picked up from his grandmother who was very religious, and influenced him
positively to believe and trust in God at all times.
As a couple we
both believed in God and in prayers; so despite whatever situations in our
life, we were able to face every challenge together. There were trying moments
in our lives, a road accident that crushed David’s leg and the doctors felt
that he may not walk easily, and he was totally bed ridden and with faith in
the Lord, he was able to walk. When I conceived my second child, the doctors
told me that I would have a natural abortion as the foetus was very small, with
prayers and faith Emmanuel our special child was gifted to us, and he lived
with us for 7 years until he bid final good bye to us. We stood strong together
only because of our faith and trust in the Lord.
There are so
many other challenges that came rocking our family boat, amidst all storms
there is faith, hope and above all peace. Both I and David are extremely different,
in our tastes and there is nothing similar. It was only prayer that made us
kneel down and bow before the creator and both us unique as we are evolved our
own ways of praying, and we continue to evolve learning new forms of prayer.
The power of
prayer is seen in the way we have evolved and continue to evolve as persons
seeking God’s will, and finding our unique purpose in our lives. Prayer has helped
us to trust one another and to believe in the commitment we made to each other
to stand by one another at all times.
Be Blessed &
Be Happy !
I believe in the power of prayers too and they give so much strength and peace. KG and I have our own ways of praying, but the faith and belief is common and that's what matters the most!
ReplyDeleteYes shilpa, for me raised in a catholic traditional family that believed and ensured that we prayed everyday:) even though sometimes it was a pain... today I value the power of prayer:)
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