I am participating in EVERYDAY GYAAN
the 21 Day Challenge
Who does not want to be
appreciated?
Appreciation is a great emotional
need and also a motivator for every one in this world. When we appreciate those
who work for us; we not only make them happy, but also increase their
motivation to perform well whatever task we have entrusted to them.
When we appreciate children for
their sincerity and initiative, we help them in learning to be honest and they
become bold to take risks.
When we appreciate our family
members for whatever they do for us; the family is more united filled with lot
of positive energy bonding the family well.
When we appreciate our friends
for what they are to us; we give them happiness and the friendship deepens.
Appreciation has to be genuine and authentic and even thought the persons know
about his/her strength – it becomes a magical when they are put into words. Some
times the person does not know his/her strength, then we help them in
identifying what ‘s in them and appreciate that particular quality.
I always considered myself lucky
for all the appreciation I have received from my friends and my colleagues.
Appreciation has strengthened some of the qualities and has also enhanced my
self esteem. I believe that it is very important to appreciate those who are
with us; and those who work for us; and also for those whom we work.
I find this very common in
parents and some elders; that they would never want to appreciate their
children directly, as they fear that the child may become over confident and
proud. So they are always criticizing them and finding faults giving them rules
of Don’t do this … or Don’t do that …
and we find children end up doing just the opposite. If we want children to
obey, appreciation is very important, and it is very important to tell them
that we love them, and they matter to us.
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