April 30, 2012 was
David’s birthday and he was in no mood for celebration, as he is still missing
and grieving for Emmanuel, it’s been very tough for him, as he very attached to
him.
While I did not know what to do but accept the situation as it is in my
life, for I too miss him, and it’s a reality that he is no more. Thanks to my swimming
that energizes me every day, and thanks to the students who come to meet me at the centre,
listening to their issues, I had learnt to cope and accept the loss of my son
to a certain extent.
My daughter Maria
Dorothy is full of life, and she loves to celebrate, loves good food and enjoys
herself with whatever is provided at home. She was so excited for her father’s
birthday, her preparations began one week ahead.
She started putting the
old photos of David together in a folder and made a collage out of it for this
birthday.
She made sure that I
order a small cake, organized the family prayer with Rachael, my niece who is
with me for holidays and made the day into a beautiful experience for us as a
family, I am so happy and glad for her in my life. Dorothy motivation inspired me to make some
special meal and appreciate David for his Faith in God, generosity, commitment,
love and care he has for me and our family. We thanked the Lord for the gift of him, and adding a year more to his life.
David was lost for words,
as he looked at the collage, and all that was written for him, all he could do
was to hug and say thanks to all of us .This experience made him proud and
happy that his little baby girl has now grown so big to have his birthday
celebrated.
"A
daughter is a beautiful reflection of God's grace."
Author: Lynn A. Pena
Be Blessed & Be Happy!
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